Start Strength Training for Good Health

January 22nd, 2012

Health Beauty BargainsRemember those boxes of books you carried up the stairs so easily a few years ago? Or the jammed grocery bags you used to grab from your car’s trunk two at a time?

Maybe these days you’re packing less into storage cartons and shopping sacks, to make them lighter to lift, or enlisting a teenager’s help in hauling them. As we get older, many of us find ourselves becoming less strong than we once were. That’s to be expected in middle age and onward, especially if you’re a woman—right?

It doesn’t have to be so. Your healthy future depends upon keeping your muscles strong. Losing strength may result in serious health problems: fractures, imbalance, loss of mobility and inactivity—leading to diabetes, heart disease and obesity. Yet those risks can be turned around, and even prevented, with quick and simple strength training exercises.

“Strength training—as in lifting weights? I can’t do that!” you may be thinking.

Don’t worry. Even if you’d rather pump your own gas than pump iron, the exercises to help you stay strong are easy to do and won’t leave you looking like a professional body-builder.

And the health payoffs are big. Just a few months of strength (also called resistance) training—at home, in a gym or fitness center—can lower your cholesterol, reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease, help you avoid osteoporosis, decrease arthritic symptoms and build muscle so you remain active and independent for years to come.

Losing muscle with age

Most women know that aging can weaken our bones. If left untreated, this condition (called osteopenia) can lead to osteoporosis. A related process—called sarcopenia—happens when our muscles and lean body mass begin to decline.

“The loss of muscle mass starts in your early 30s,” says Michael J. Hewitt, Ph.D., research director for exercise science at Canyon Ranch Health Resort in Tucson. “By the time a woman is in her mid-40s, she may have lost 6 to 7 percent of her muscle mass.”

If that muscle isn’t retained or rebuilt, you lose strength. You also lose metabolic rate, Hewitt adds, which causes you to gain weight. Eventually, as muscle mass declines further with each decade, everyday activities—such as rising from a chair, putting away the dishes, or getting out of the bathtub—may become too difficult to manage.

Many people believe such weakening is inevitable. “We have this idea that because we’re older, we’re not supposed to have the same level of function and that’s really wrong,” Hewitt says. Strength or resistance training—whether performed with handheld weights, exercise bands, or on more sophisticated machines—helps fight that muscle loss.

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Midlife Health

January 8th, 2012

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Your Health at Midlife

woman in the poolLife is a journey, filled with many passages and transitions. And midlife is one transition sure to get your attention. Many things may change—your relationships with your now—older children and your partner, your career, even your body. Some you can control; others you can’t. One thing you can control, however, is your health during this time of life.

For once you hit midlife—and we’re talking anywhere from your early 40s to early 50s—health-related issues you never before considered begin demanding attention.

Here, in a nutshell, are three things to focus on:

Your bones. You’ve probably always taken them for granted, but now is the time to become aware of just what’s holding you up—your bones. After menopause, you have far less estrogen available to maintain bone. Hence, bone-destroying cells get the upper hand, putting you at risk for osteoporosis. What to do? Ask your health care professional about your personal risk for osteoporosis. While bone density screening tests aren’t usually recommended until 65, some health-related issues warrant earlier screening. Regardless of your risk factors, the following two approaches can help you maintain existing bone and continue to build bone:

High levels of calcium. You should be getting at least 1,200 milligrams a day, but most women get only about 600 milligrams through their diet, so supplements like calcium citrate and calcium carbonate might be necessary. It’s also important that you engage in some weight-bearing exercise most days, like walking, gardening or working out with weights.

Your heart. Your biggest risk after you pass menopause is not breast cancer but heart disease. It’s the leading cause of death in women over 45. Unfortunately, not enough women realize this. So if you haven’t already, now is the time to really start paying attention to things like cholesterol levels, weight, physical activity and diet.

Why now? Well, until now high levels of estrogen protected your heart, one reason women develop heart disease an average of 10 years later than men. However, as estrogen levels decline, so does that protection. While it’s still not clear if supplemental estrogen can continue that protection, that’s almost beside the point. If you’re eating a heart-healthy diet composed of healthy fats, lots of fruits, vegetables and fiber, and low-fat protein like fish and soy, accompanied by at least 30 minutes of physical activity a day, you’re well on your way to providing your body with what it needs to replace the previous protection of estrogen.

Oh yeah—and stop smoking. If you smoke, you’re two to six times more likely to suffer a heart attack than a nonsmoking woman, and your risk increases with the number of cigarettes you smoke each day. You also have a significantly higher risk of heart disease if you have diabetes, high blood pressure or high cholesterol or if you are obese and/or have low levels of physical activity.

Your blood sugar. You can’t feel it or taste it, but if your blood sugar levels start to creep up, you’re putting yourself at increased risk for everything from heart and kidney disease to dementia, nerve damage and early death. You don’t even have to be officially diagnosed with diabetes to find yourself in trouble. A condition called “insulin resistance,” in which your cells prevent insulin from “unlocking” the door so energy in the form of glucose can enter, also increases your risk of heart disease, as does full-blown diabetes.

The remedy? Watch your diet, get regular physical activity and try to maintain a healthy weight—nothing new here. And if you’re 45 and older, make sure you’re getting regular blood sugar tests at least every three years. Your health care professional may want to test you more often depending on your risk factors for developing diabetes. Also measure your waist every few months. A high waist-to-hip ratio increases your risk of insulin resistance and diabetes.

Of course, these three areas aren’t the only things you need to think about. You also want to make sure you:

Have an annual mammogram from age 40 onward.

Have a Pap test for cervical cancer every one to three years, depending on your risk factors and previous results.

Have your blood pressure tested at least once a year.

Have your cholesterol tested at least every five years (more frequently if you have risk factors for heart disease).

Begin colorectal cancer screenings at age 50.

Have regular dental exams and every-six-month tooth cleanings.

Get a complete eye exam at least every two to four years, more often depending on your personal or family medical history.

Get an annual skin exam for skin cancer.

Do all these, and you’re much more likely to enjoy the next 30, 40 or 50 years as much as the past 30, 40 or 50.

(Source: HealthyWomen.org)

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Heat and Humidity Defying Makeup Tips

December 22nd, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsTime and again purses left in automobiles result in molten lipsticks, smeary eye shadow and super-sticky mascara. Makeup applied to one’s face fails to fare much better, with smudgy eye makeup and smeary foundation rubbing off every which way.

Looking your best becomes a bit trickier when the warmer weather teases your tresses and melts your makeup quicker than you can bat an eye. A fully made-up mug may not be conducive to looking fresh and fabulous on a hot, sticky day, but a few heatproof makeup tricks and tips could really help you save face, literally!

Lip smackin’ fun, refreshing spray and sun protection

For a cool, tasty treat, keep a stick or two of your favorite lip balm in the refrigerator. Fruity favorites become even more refreshing when chilled. Many brands of Chap Stick, lip gloss, lip balm and other lip treatments now offer products with SPF 15 to prevent burned lips. Keep an eye out for these sweet treats, as few things taste worse than burnt lips!

While adding items to your refrigerator, consider placing an invigorating body spray in the fridge to chill for a super-uplifting pick-me-up during the day’s hottest hours. For skin protection from the sun, also keep an eye out for special facial and body lotions that contain sunscreen along with the beauty ingredients for soft skin, greaseless feel and a nice fragrance.

Protect your makeup and your visage

First and foremost, putting makeup on while driving is a very bad idea. Full attention should be focused on the road, however it does become tempting at times to steal away a few seconds when stuck at a red light. If you lug your makeup along with you in the car on your way to work, the store, visiting family and friends or otherwise, be sure not to leave it locked inside your vehicle on a warm sunny day. It doesn’t take much to melt a tube of lipstick or cream foundation, making a mess all over your makeup bag, purse and your precious car!

Also, if swimming or exhaustive physical activity awaits on the agenda, waterproof makeup may be in order. Mascara runs quite easily when exposed to water and sometimes even to mere perspiration. A waterproof product allows you to keep your attractive look while remaining as active as you want to be.

Pressed powder may make a better substitute for cakey liquid foundation on warmer days, leaving skin feel soft, fresh and clean. If you require foundation every day, rain or shine, consider applying a thinner amount and dusting a bit of powder on top to prevent smudging, smearing and running of the makeup.

Taming your hair

To defeat the frizzies, try applying an ice cube to your tresses. For a new look, braid your hair while it is still wet for a tight, attractive look. If you wish to wear your hair straight, consider applying some spray gel or anti-frizz gel. When all else fails, tie your hair up in a trusty ponytail!

Allowing hair to dry naturally protects it from heat damage, but blow-drying on occasion can aid in straightening efforts and controllability. Special shampoos and hair care products provide relief for intense exposure to the sun and chlorinated water. Sometimes summer days and humid nights cause bad hair days despite your efforts, so keeping a hat or visor on hand may be a great solution. No matter where you go, keep a ponytail holder handy in case you need to put your hair up.

Pretty tootsies in strappy sandals

For a fresh, fun look with cool intentions, paint your toes to match your fingernails and show them off with the strappiest, sexiest sandals you own. Or, opt for a casual and comfortable look with a cozy pair of flip-flops. Perform a home pedicure and flaunt your fabulous feet at work and at play.

Wearing open shoes will keep your feet aerated, preventing sweating and helping to keep your body cooler. Painting your nails outside instead of cooped up in the bathroom gives a nice scenic setting and better ventilation for the strong nail polish fumes. Your nails may even dry quicker if allowed to dry outside in the warm fresh air.

While all these makeup tricks and tips may make your beautification process easier, sometimes it doesn’t hurt to go a few days without any makeup at all. Discover your own natural beauty by letting loose, relenting on routine behaviors and enjoying the chance to just be yourself.

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Cosmetic Beauty Products, Anti-Aging and Acne Care

December 8th, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsJapanese are popular for their flawless and beautiful skin. One of the main secrets to their beauty is use of natural and organic beauty products. Whether you are worried about the excessive dryness on your skin or you want to look fairer, Japanese cosmetic beauty products have an answer to all of your skin problems.

Japanese hair care

Tsubaki oil is natural camellia oil found in Japan. This oil is golden in color and can prove to be very useful for your hairs. Unlike Cosmetic Beauty Products made out of chemical and toxic elements, Tsubaki oil acts as a natural conditioner that makes your hair look healthy and smooth. It also provides the required nourishment to your scalp and also makes the roots of your hair healthy. It promotes hair growth and is rich in olein acid that adds shine to your hair. Glycerides present in the Tsubaki oil also helps to treat damaged hair. Tsubakin oil is the best choice for those who long for healthy and beautiful hairs.

Japanese anti-aging products

There are a variety of Japanese facial creams and moisturizers available in the market that make your skin look younger and healthier. For instance, anti-ageing face mask made out of a combination of hyaluronic acid, ceramides of rice bran and other extracts of rice bran, alginin, and vitamins is one of the best ways to avoid wrinkles and blemishes that develop with age. Hechima gourd water products made in Japan also helps you to keep your skin looking young and healthy. You can find many other Japanese anti-ageing products on various websites that deal in Japanese beauty products.

Japanese acne skincare

Acne is one of the main skin problems faced by masses today. Japanese manufacture effective acne products that are made from natural ingredients. Nuka rice bran washing bag is the perfect natural product for those who want to get rid of their acne problem. Those who have acne should immediately discontinue using harsh soaps on their face. They should start washing their face with Nuka rice bran face wash. It acts as good

acne cleaner by controlling excessive oil secretion and deeply cleansing the pores of your skin.

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Beautiful Hair

November 22nd, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsWomen who desire to be beautiful almost always start with their hair. There is nothing like a head of soft, fluffy hair that looks thick and full of body. Hair like that always catches the eye. Thin and lanky hair that lies flat against the scalp rarely if ever looks flattering.

To achieve this full-bodied look, women resort to using various products, shampoo, conditioners and styling aids. Subjecting the hair to chemical treatments like coloring, bleaching and perming also results to this. Blow-drying the hair also fluffs it out. Unfortunately, too much of these products and processes can lead to hair damage as well.

Each strand of our hair is made up of cuticles covered with scales. These scales are responsible for protecting the hair from damage. Ideally, these scales are supposed to lie flat against the cuticle, but when the hair is permed, bleached or colored, the chemicals involved in the process open up these scales to treat the hair inside as well. The open scales cause the hair to fluff out, making the hair look thicker and fuller. This is also what happens when the hair is exposed to heat from blow-drying or using hair irons and curlers. The danger to having the scales of the hair open, though, is added vulnerability of the hair to chemical build-up, as well as to probable damage of the cuticle from ultraviolet rays, leading to dryness, frizzing and split ends.

Beautiful hair Perming and coloring may seem like a quick fix for thicker hair, but it will prove harmful in the end. Thick and fluffed-out hair is not beautiful hair if it is not healthy.

So how does one get thick and full-bodied hair that is also glowing with health? The first step to this is using a good volumizer shampoo. Like the chemicals used in perming and coloring, volumizer shampoos also enter the scales and cause them to open up and pad the hair with substance. But unlike perming chemicals and dyes, shampoos also have ingredients that are formulated to protect the hair’s cuticle.

Volumizer sprays and lotions applied to the hair while styling also do the trick. Another method involves hair gel rubbed onto the hair while being blow-dried, lifting the hair strands and creating the illusion of thickness and body.

But again, too much is bad. Shampoos and other hair styling products leave residue to the hair that will make it look limp. The product build-up must be washed out of the hair at least once a month with clarifying shampoo or castile soap. These products will rid the hair of build-up but let the hair keep its fullness.

Another thing you can try to increase the volume of your hair is tipping your head down and brushing your hair from the back. You can also do your hair up in curlers for those volume-adding curls.

Having thick hair is not just a dream, and neither is it an expensive and difficult reality. Be creative and keep your hair healthy!

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Black Hair

November 8th, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsYou might be thinking of getting a drastically new look. Most times, this only entails a change in your everyday makeup, a new haircut, or a few touch-ups to your wardrobe. What’s really guaranteed to up your look’s shock factor is getting a new hair color. If you’ve been a blonde all your life, turning brunette will turn heads. If you’ve never switched your brown hair color for any other shade, going a lot lighter will brighten up your appearance. But if you go with black hair, then that will definitely give you a whole new look.

Black hair can convey lots of different images. It could make you look like a total Goth girl or make you look like the perfect Oriental doll. Done right, it could make you look like a raven-haired goddess with long, cascading tresses.

Not everyone is cut out to sport black hair, though. Before you head to your stylist and declare your intentions to blacken your locks, go over these few guidelines first.

Black hair is your goal, but it’s not advisable to choose a totally charcoal-black shade. Hairdressers say a really deep black sometimes makes hair look fake, so a dark brown-black shade would look better.
Consider your skin color. They say black goes with everything, and that’s more or less true with black hair. You could have dark skin, have a glowing tan, or olive complexion and you’re going to be able to pull off black hair just fine. Fair skin also does justice to black hair, but make sure you’re not extremely pale, unless you really are going for a Goth look.
Take your cue from stars who have turned their manes black. While she’s ordinarily gorgeous in every look she’s experimented with, Angelina Jolie once looked sinister in black at the 2000 Oscars. Ashlee Simpson used to be an aspiring black-haired rocker chick when she emerged into the music scene. Britney Spears shocked everyone when she dyed her normally blond hair a stunning black. Burlesque artist Dita Von Teese is a natural blonde, but established her signature style with glossy black curls.

Having second thoughts about getting black hair? Get yourself accustomed to a darker hair color by getting a deep brown shade first. If it turns out gorgeous, let the color settle in for several months and give your hair time to relax before getting another treatment. Then you can launch your new look and go all out black.

Also see: Hair Extensions and Celebrity Hairstyles.

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Beautiful Long Lashes

October 22nd, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsYou always see celebrities with beautiful long lashes. Now you can also get their look by doing these easy tips:

1. Make sure that your face is clean. Before putting the fake mascara line your upper lash with a dark eyeliner pencil.
2. Apply a thin coat of mascara and let it dry.
3. Check the fake lashes band if it?s right width. Sometimes they can be longer. Trim it exactly the right width of your lash line.
4. Some artificial lashes has adhesive on the band. While others has to be done separately. Use a toothpick to in putting the adhesive to the lashes. Dab a thin coat and wait a few seconds to allow the adhesive to become tacky.
5. Press on the lashes bands from the inner to the outer corners of your eyes, placing them as close to your own natural lash line as possible. Hold them for a few seconds until they are set.
6. You can apply another coat of mascara if you want.
7. When removing the fake lashes. Apply a makeup remover and let it penetrate to the glue. It will be easier to take them off without irritating your eyelids. Then gently pull off the lashes.
8. You can reuse your fake lashes as long as your clean them. When cleaning them, use a warm water and soap. A tweezers will be great in pulling off the remaining glue. Brush the lashes with a toothbrush. Store them in the original container to keep their shape.

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Natural Beauty Products For You

October 8th, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsIf you are suffering from skin conditions, using this regular cleansing to try in addition to accomplish obliterate about acne begin to well be a certain topic yourself by now realize to your skin and body daily. However did yourself realize which cleansing, because part about an expeditious natural beauty products remedy used for acne, includes more than simply what one is doing to the surface about your skin and body? really probably even more importantly instead of fastidious skin and body cleansing, used for long duration skin and body robust as well as common well-being, is guaranteeing one is cleansed internally also! it settles on the fact to resolve sense immediately the only thing that from the surface yourself begin to obliterate dead cells in addition to invigorate innovative your by using your daily cleansing method, however your skin and body cells form from the contained within in addition to the wrinkle free renewal is directly affected up to that which is looking on contained within your skin and body. Acne is a requirement which a variety of people bear in mind because being simply skin and body natural beauty products.

The great piece of information about natural beauty products is, acne goes a lot deeper instead of your skin and body in addition to if you are most desirable cleansing alone on the exterior to, you will each and every one of indubitably be losing an possibility in getting obliterate about acne used for opportune. Of course, cleaning your skin being a important part about guaranteeing yourself keep your acne under persuade however yourself also have to obtain how to clean ‘beneath’ the surface to can repair the problem that is bringing about the acne to feature in addition to result in yourself this kind of embarrassment in addition to aggravation. acne is, often, simply a symptom, or even sign, which each of our is not well in limits of in addition to unless yourself put the situation opportune one can investing in years being frustrated affordable at the lack about efficiency which surface treatment used for acne alone carries out.

A certain topic that you indubitably want to realize provided you mean on cleansing to accomplish obliterate about acne is to realize natural beauty products in addition to being gentle. The great third factor to consider that you want to realize is cleanse as a result aggressively that you release an also a variety of chemicals each of our straight away into your approach. Basically what such would assert able result doing is bringing about acne to feature even more abundantly on the surface, as a result producing the problem have the appearance of being washing the face with worse earlier it releases to make it the slightest natural beauty products.

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Keep Laughing

September 22nd, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsSharon Danzger admits to having been a little skeptical when a member of her women’s business networking group extolled the health benefits of laughing on purpose. When the woman offered to teach the group to laugh when nothing was funny—no jokes told or comedy movie screened—”I was hesitant,” Danzger says.

After all, the group was made up of people who didn’t know each other very well. Some men were going to attend the laughter session, too. How could they all just start laughing together for no reason?

Healthy laughter

A good laugh, like a good cry, has long been thought to be the right medicine at certain moments. Now scientists are exploring how regular laughing can do more than just put a smile on your face.

“After laughing, you have a relaxation response (in your body). Everything goes down—heart rate, blood pressure, your muscles relax,” says Mary Bennett, PhD, APRN, whose research has investigated how humor and laughter affect physical and psychological well-being.

Studies show that laughter can: lower inflammation levels in people with rheumatoid arthritis; improve levels of good (HDL) cholesterol and reduce inflammation in diabetics with high blood pressure and high cholesterol; decrease stress and pain; and expand blood vessels and increase healthy blood flow.

“We’re starting to document that this (laughter’s positive influence on health) isn’t just an old wives’ tale,” says Bennett, who is director of the Western Kentucky University School of Nursing in Bowling Green, Kentucky. “It does seem to make a difference.”

All together now

Danzger’s curiosity about using laughter for better health finally won out. She decided to attend the session.

“Everyone has stress in their lives,” says Danzger, who has four children under age 12 and runs a professional organizing business in Tenafly, NJ. “I don’t think we set aside time to laugh.”

The group met for 45 minutes. The leader took them through stretching exercises, yoga breathing and exercises in which they did different types of laughter. “In the beginning, you fake it,” Danzger says. As the exercises progressed, “it induced real laughter.” The session finished with a few minutes of quiet meditation.

“Everyone was so happy at the end,” says Danzger. “The laughter gets so much stuff out of your head…and gets you to a very peaceful, serene place.”

The group held two sessions, and Danzger hopes to do more on her own. “It’s a very freeing, joyous experience,” she says.

Faking it helps make it

There’s a difference, Bennett notes, between humor (a mental process) and outright laughing, a physical activity that triggers physiological reactions.

In one study, Bennett and her colleagues measured whether watching a funny video would affect the immune systems of a group of adult women. While stress levels went down for the group, “only the people who physically laughed out loud had an increase in natural-killer (NK) cell activity,” she says. NK cells are frontline responders in the body’s immune system. Low NK cell activity makes you more susceptible to disease and puts people with cancer or HIV at greater risk of death.

“If you’re getting a good belly laugh every few minutes, you’re improving your immune function,” Bennett says.

Although humor and laughter are two separate things, laughing because you think something is funny and learned laughter—such as Danzger practiced in her group sessions—both cause the same positive physical responses.

So why should you learn how to laugh when you’ve been laughing naturally all your life?

First, because humor—especially belly-laugh-producing humor—isn’t the same for everyone. Consider the range of what makes people laugh: scan the cable TV channels and you’re likely to see one or two programs that cause you to chuckle out loud at least once. There are probably many more shows that you don’t find funny at all, yet millions of people watch those programs and laugh heartily.

What’s more, humor can’t always be summoned on demand. When you’re depressed, worried, sad or stressed out, humorous entertainment or conversation might not make you guffaw.

“Humor is so dependent upon our culture and our mood at the moment,” says Judy L. Young, a laughter coach and educator in Wichita, KS, who coauthored a study of “purposeful aerobic laughter”—or laughter without humor. “We teach you how to laugh on your own, which is very helpful when people are in a place in life where they have nothing to laugh about.”

The research Young and her coauthors conducted focused on a workplace laughter group that met for 15-minute sessions over 15 consecutive workdays. During the regimen, participants showed significant increases in optimism, self-awareness, positive emotions, social identification and more—gains they maintained even after the study ended.

“Laughter without humor can literally make you feel better, think better and function better,” says Young, who now takes her laughter exercise program to businesses, health care groups and others.

Many of today’s laughter groups have their roots in a practice called Laughter Yoga, which combines “laughter for no reason” exercises with yogic breathing. Begun 14 years ago by a physician in India, there are now Laughter Yoga clubs around the world.

The sessions Danzger attended were taught by a trained Laughter Yoga leader, although Danzger worries that the name might keep some people away. “I do not like yoga,” she explains. “For me, this was totally different. I loved it.”

On your own

Learning to laugh with a group is often easier, but Young contends that you can benefit from laughing by yourself for 15 minutes a day. Here’s the laughter exercise she suggests:

Give 3 big, noisy sighs as you inhale through your nose and exhale through your mouth.

Stretch gently. Bring your shoulders to your ears; then lower gently. Rotate feet and elbows; turn your head from side to side—gently.

Take a few deep abdominal breaths and release slowly.

Holding your hands under your belly, make a laughing “ho-ho-ho.” Make sure the sound comes from your core (you’ll feel it in your hands when you’re doing it right). Repeat 3 groups of 3, several times.

Change the sound to “ha-ha-ha” and repeat as above.

Change the sound to “hee-hee-hee” and repeat as above.

Put all 3 sounds together—”ho-ho-ho, ha-ha-ha, hee-hee-hee”—and repeat for 3 rounds, continuing until you develop a rhythm.

After the final round, break into your own natural laughter. Continue for a few minutes. If it becomes difficult, stop and go back to step #3 and start the laughing cycle again.

The exercise may feel contrived at first, but your normal laugh will come, Young says. She’s seen it work with the stressed-out people she teaches.

“We have gotten ourselves so overscheduled and overwhelmed that we forget to be like children. We forget to give ourselves permission to be happy, to smile,” she says.

“This is one tool to put in your toolbox to make your life more rewarding and make you feel better.”

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Stress Less in 7 Steps

September 8th, 2011

Health Beauty BargainsYou know the feeling: the more you do, the more it seems you have to do. As challenges mount in your work, relationships, finances and health—sometimes in several areas of your life at once—they can easily turn from trying to overwhelming.

The source of your stress may be temporary, such as producing a big holiday party, so the pressure ends in a short time. More serious stressors are long-lasting or out of your control, such as what the stock market is doing or a major medical problem.

Yet, often, we take responsibility for solving every detail, every problem, every adversity, whether it’s realistic or even sensible to do so.

“Women are always chronically multitasking and under stress. This year (with the economic crisis), in particular, it’s more difficult,” says Nancy Molitor, PhD, an assistant professor of clinical psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Northwestern University, Feinberg School of Medicine, Chicago.

Preventing stress in real life may be virtually impossible, but managing it well is extremely important for both your physical and emotional health.

When stress hits

Stress floods your body with hormones, weakens your immune system, affects brain function and worsens many chronic medical conditions.

While short-term stress might cause worry or a sleepless night, stress that lasts longer can produce or contribute to high blood pressure, digestive difficulties, fatigue, heart problems, neck and back pain, obesity, breathing disorders, headaches, insomnia, anger, depression, lowered sexual desire, and more. Fortunately, there are many good ways to short-circuit the effects of stress (see suggestions below).

People differ in what triggers their stress as well as in which methods successfully manage it. What works to lower your stress might not work for your best friend. The wisest course is to find several effective de-stressing techniques. “You have to have a whole bunch of things in your toolkit,” says Dr. Molitor, who is also a psychologist in private practice in Wilmette, Illinois, and a Public Education Coordinator for the American Psychological Association.

To manage stress, she says, you need to develop ways to pace yourself and take time out. Stress relievers are vital, she adds, “like paying yourself first, or putting on your oxygen mask (on an airplane) before taking care of your kids.”

Facing challenges

Ramona Russell has been on the Stress Express ever since going to college full-time while working three jobs. “I have a very Type A personality and I’m intense. I’m a recovering perfectionist,” she says.

When she was 29, Russell had a demanding job working for a start-up nonprofit organization in Sacramento. “I did everything, from training volunteers to public relations and marketing.” Then the unthinkable happened: her younger sister, Liz, just 26 years old, was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. At the same time, the nonprofit Russell worked for began to sink. “It made what was going on with my sister so much worse,” she recalls.

Although she had not been much of an athlete in her teen years, Russell had taken up running after college and ran in a marathon the year before her sister’s diagnosis. After her employer folded, Russell put off looking for another job so she could help with her sister’s care. She credits regular running (about 25 miles per week when she’s not training for a marathon) with reducing the ongoing stress she was experiencing. “It helped keep me focused and enabled me to better support my sister,” she says.

Repetitive exercise, such as running, brings forth the stress-busting “relaxation response,” according to research conducted by Herbert Benson, MD, of the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind Body Medicine at Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School. Benson and his colleagues found that the relaxation response changes the way your body and brain react to stress. Put simply, you slow your metabolism, heart rate and breathing; lower your blood pressure; and reduce muscle tension. Recent research shows that the relaxation response can change gene expression for long-term benefits.

That process worked for Russell as she coped with her sister’s illness and death, the loss of two other young family members and separation from her brother, who enlisted and went to war. “When I run, I feel things melt away,” she says. “It gives you energy you didn’t have.” Running also sparked an idea for a business that Russell, now 33, created in her sister’s memory. Called Uptown Liz (www.uptownliz.com), the shopping Web site refers customers to products that benefit charitable causes.

Stress-busters that work

Don’t worry—you can get good stress relief from exercise without running a marathon. “There’s tons of research on this,” says Dr. Molitor. “Physical exercise of a very moderate amount, two times a week or more, is the best thing you can do to cope with chronic stress.”

Understand what you can control: Stress often comes from trying to control situations or people’s actions that are beyond our control. Avoidance also raises stress. Recognize the choices you do have, Dr. Molitor advises. You may not be able to control world financial markets, but you can read your statements, control how you invest and make choices about how to spend your available income.

Say good things about yourself: This one is so simple, but many of us reinforce our stress by piling on with an internal negative voice. Research shows that affirming your personal values keeps production of cortisol, the stress hormone, low. The next time you catch yourself putting yourself down in your thoughts, say or write something good about yourself instead. And make the goals you set for yourself realistic.

Encourage the relaxation response: Try activities that use repetitive motion or sounds while also pushing aside everyday thoughts that might pop up. This helps quiet your mind. Good stress-relieving repetitive activities: knitting, running, prayer, playing a musical instrument, meditating or chanting a word or phrase.

Keep meals and sleep healthy: Eat more veggies, fruits and whole grains. Avoid sugar, caffeine and fatty foods as much as possible. Good fuel promotes emotional resilience and calm. And avoid eating when you’re not hungry—another sign of chronic stress that can just lead to more tense feelings. Stress might also cause sleep loss, which makes you feel more stressed. Support healthy sleep by winding down at night, avoiding caffeine or food before bed and leaving enough time for a good night’s rest.

Find a passion: Stress can narrow your vision, so it helps to move outside the boundaries of your current situation. Start with a small step—a one-night class in an artistic interest you haven’t pursued before or two hours of volunteer effort for a community or charitable project—then see where that first step takes you. Many women find stress relief through a new passion for a career, hobby o

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